— You’re the Asshole (YTA): the Original Poster (aka “OP”) is the asshole. — Not the Asshole (NTA): the OP is not the asshole, but someone else is. — Everyone Sucks Here (ESH): everyone in the conflict is an asshole, including OP. — No Assholes Here (NAH): everyone in the conflict is doing their best and operating in good faith, so no one is a full-blown asshole. Question: If a friend issued the same invitation that your mom did, would Luke be kicking up a fuss, or would he just go? This isn’t about the invitation; Luke just doesn’t want to go. Your choice is to stay with him or go without him, but your parents don’t have to issue Lukie Wubbie his own special private invitation. And think hard: Is this really the only time he kicks up a fuss, or do you tiptoe around a lot of things? Be honest." ‘You can’t tell who’s right or who’s wrong…’ …I kinda feel like I can."
